Recently, I found myself face to face with a youth rights dispute that cast light on one of the most ridiculous set of state laws I’ve ever stumbled across. 18 year olds are adults… right? Well, according to 90% of the country, yes. However, Alabama and Nebraska have their age of majority set at 19 years old, meaning individuals do not gain full legal rights until they are 19 years old, instead of 18. Mississippi is even wilder, with their age of majority set at 21 years old! One of the major harms of these states having a higher age of majority is that it preserves parental custody and control of 18 year olds in situations where in any other state, they should be able to exercise adult-level rights and privileges.
Table of Contents
- 18 Year Olds Running Away to Escape Abusive Homes
- What Does Alabama’s Unusually High Age of Majority Mean
- Can an 18 year old in Alabama Be Considered a Runaway in a State with a High Age of Majority?
- What If the 18 year old Leaves Alabama for Another State?
- Can the Interstate Compact Be Used to Force an 18 year old to Return to their Parents?
- How Likely Is an Involuntary Interstate Return for an 18 year old?
- Could Someone Helping the 18 year old Leave Be Charged With a Crime?
- Nebraska Shows Why a Higher Age of Majority Does Not Always Mean Continued Runaway Jurisdiction
- What about in Mississippi?
- Conclusion – All Questions Answered
- The Need for Runaway Rights for Youth
18 Year Olds Running Away to Escape Abusive Homes
This high age of majority makes it so young people who are facing abusive parents, and parental oppression cannot get out of these situations in the same way that 18 year olds in other states can. For example, I recently met an 18 year old girl who is living with an abusive mother. This abusive mother is extremely bipolar, will act volatilely and aggressively often, will restrict her from interacting with her friends, will seize her property, and will sometimes destroy her personal property and belongings during outbursts. This is a type of situation that nobody should have to live in—let alone an 18 year old who would be considered an adult in pretty much any other part of the country. This message chain between the girl and her mother, that I was given consent to use, illustrates what the girl is often forced to deal with:
All of this came over a minor dispute over financial aid for college. A mother threatened her 18 year old daughter with physical force, in an aggressive manner, over a simple college dispute. This is not normal; this is abusive, and no young person should live with a parent who behaves in this way. When I saw this message, my first thought was to tell her to record any of the abusive/aggressive behavior by her mother, so she could report it to the police. I assumed that since she is an 18 year old, her mother assaulting her would not be considered discipline, and would therefore be illegal, therefore giving her a clear pathway to press criminal charges. However… She lives in Alabama, meaning that even at 18 years of age, she is still not considered an adult. This means that her mother is legally allowed to use corporal punishment on her under Alabama’s laws, because she’s still a “child”.
Alabama has an explicit parental discipline defense in Ala. Code § 13A-3-24(1). It provides that a parent, guardian, or other person responsible for the care and supervision of a “minor” may use “reasonable and appropriate physical force” when the person reasonably believes it is necessary and appropriate to “maintain discipline” or “promote the minor’s welfare”. Ordinarily, because Alabama’s general age of majority is 19, an 18 year old remains an unemancipated minor. Alabama statutes in several areas expressly define a minor as someone under 19, and § 26-1-1 continues to treat an 18 year old as a minor. According to this barbaric law, a parent could legally use corporal punishment as an 18 year old. Corporal punishment should never be used on a child in any circumstance, but the fact that Alabama has a specific defense for it, and allows it on 18 year olds that should be considered adults, is even more ridiculous.
Seeing someone I was close to having to endure this abuse by an oppressive parental figure made my blood boil. So I did the only reasonable thing and decided to intervene, offering that I would fly her to Texas to get her away from her mother. However, another problem arose, fueled by Alabama’s high age of majority. Her mother would obviously not consent to her leaving the state, and since Alabama’s age of majority is 19 years old, even though she would be a legal adult in the state she was going to, her parents still had legal custody of her. The problem compounds due to running away from home without parental consent being a status offense for minors, meaning her parents could theoretically trigger an intervention by police and the juvenile court in order to prevent her from “running away”, or to return her to the home.
Imagine that—an 18 year old who would be an adult in most other states—confined to home by an abusive parent, who is legally allowed to hit her, and who could report her to the police if she attempted to leave. Seeing the absurdity of this law, I decided to do some deep research into the possibility of juvenile court proceedings being used against an 18 year old who “ran away” from home in a state with a high age of majority. The following article answers all of these questions in detail. Can an 18 year old run away from home without parental consent in a high age of majority state? What if the 18 year old goes to another state with a normal age of majority? How likely is an involuntary interstate return for an 18 year old? And also importantly, could someone helping an 18 year old leave a high age-of-majority state like Alabama be charged with a crime?
What Does Alabama’s Unusually High Age of Majority Mean?
Most states treat a person as having reached the general age of legal adulthood at 18. Alabama is one of the exceptions. Under Alabama Code § 26-1-1, the state’s general age of majority is 19, meaning that a person ordinarily remains subject to the legal disabilities of minority until their nineteenth birthday. Alabama has nevertheless granted 18 year olds a number of rights normally associated with adulthood. Most notably, an unemancipated 18 year old of sound mind may enter into binding contracts and cannot later avoid those contracts on the basis that they were still a minor.
This creates an unusual legal status for Alabama 18 year olds. They can vote, work, enter contracts, and exercise many other adult rights, but Alabama law does not treat them as fully identical to a 19-year-old for every purpose. The Alabama Juvenile Justice Act itself defines an “adult” as someone who is 19 years of age or older. It separately defines a “minor” as an individual under 19 who is not otherwise considered a “child” within the Juvenile Justice Act.
The practical consequences depend heavily on the particular law involved. Alabama statutes sometimes use 18 as the cutoff even though the state’s general age of majority is 19. For example, Alabama’s interference-with-custody statute, § 13A-6-45, applies to taking or enticing a child under 18 from lawful parental custody. An 18 year old therefore falls outside that particular provision even though the person has not yet reached Alabama’s general age of majority.
Can an 18 year old in Alabama Be Considered a Runaway in a State with a High Age of Majority?
Alabama’s runaway laws are one area where the state’s higher age of majority can continue to matter after a person’s eighteenth birthday. The Alabama Juvenile Justice Act’s definition of “child” normally includes someone under 18, but it expressly expands that definition to include an individual under 19 who is before the juvenile court in a child-in-need-of-supervision proceeding.
A “child in need of supervision,” commonly called a CINS case, can include a young person who persistently disobeys reasonable and lawful parental demands and is beyond parental control. The same CINS statute also encompasses runaway behavior, when a child leaves or remains away from home without the permission of the parent, guardian, or legal custodian. Because Alabama specifically preserves CINS jurisdiction for individuals under 19, an 18 year old does not necessarily become immune from Alabama’s runaway system merely by reaching their eighteenth birthday.
Alabama law also authorizes law enforcement to take a qualifying “child” into custody when officers have reasonable grounds to believe the child has run away from a parent, guardian, or other legal custodian. That authority appears in Alabama Code § 12-15-125. Because an 18 year old can still qualify as a “child” in a CINS proceeding, this authority can potentially reach an 18 year old runaway. This means that an 18 year old individual who has left home without parental permission can be lawfully arrested by police officers and forced to return home if their parent reports them as a runaway.
This does not mean that a parent can automatically call police and have any 18 year old forcibly brought home. Formal CINS cases must pass through Alabama’s juvenile intake system. Under Alabama Code § 12-15-120, a juvenile-court intake officer may not file a CINS petition unless the officer determines both that the juvenile court has jurisdiction and that filing the petition is in the best interests of the public and the child.
That screening process is significant. An 18 year old who has voluntarily moved into safe housing, has employment, can support themselves, and is clearly acting independently presents a very different situation from a younger runaway who is homeless, endangered, being exploited, or otherwise in need of immediate intervention. The fact that Alabama technically permits CINS jurisdiction through age 18 does not require authorities to use the most coercive measures available in every family dispute.
If a case does reach juvenile court, Alabama law recognizes a pickup order, an order directing law enforcement to take the child into custody and deliver the child to detention, shelter care, or another location designated by the court. The definition of a pickup order appears in Alabama Code § 12-15-102, while § 12-15-126 governs issuance of such orders.
Continued detention or shelter care is also subject to additional safeguards. Under Alabama Code § 12-15-128, continued custody generally requires findings supporting the need for detention or shelter care, including circumstances such as serious danger to the child, absence of a suitable person to provide care, or concerns that the child may not appear for future proceedings.
What If the 18 year old Leaves Alabama for Another State?
Moving to a state where the ordinary age of majority is 18 does not necessarily eliminate Alabama’s ability to treat the person as a runaway. Interstate runaway cases are governed by the Interstate Compact for Juveniles, or ICJ, an interstate agreement used throughout the United States to manage matters including runaway returns and interstate supervision of certain juveniles.
The important point is that the ICJ does not simply use the age of majority in the state where the runaway is found. Under the ICJ definition of “runaway”, a runaway is a person within the juvenile jurisdictional age limit established by the home state who voluntarily leaves their residence without permission or refuses to return when directed by their legal guardian or custodial agency.
The ICJ Age Matrix lists Alabama’s civil age of majority as 19. Therefore, the fact that an Alabama 18 year old travels to a state that generally considers 18 year olds adults does not necessarily end the inquiry. If Alabama law still gives its juvenile authorities jurisdiction over the person as a runaway, the ICJ can theoretically provide a mechanism for interstate return.
This creates a counterintuitive situation. An 18 year old might be considered an adult for most purposes in the state where they are physically located while simultaneously remaining eligible for juvenile runaway proceedings under the law of their home state. The ICJ itself recognizes that interstate cases can involve individuals over 18. Its Bench Book discussion of jurisdiction beyond age 18 explains that a receiving state may sometimes be required to deal with a person over 18 as a juvenile when the sending state’s jurisdiction continues.
Can the Interstate Compact Be Used to Force an 18 year old to Return to their Parents?
Theoretically, the interstate compact can be used to force a competent 18 year old “runaway” to return to their home state with a high age of majority.
The ICJ first provides procedures for a voluntary return. If the runaway agrees to return, the process can proceed without the more extensive litigation required for an involuntary return. The ICJ Bench Book’s voluntary-return procedures explain how this process is handled.
If the runaway refuses to return voluntarily, however, ICJ Rule 6-103 creates a non-voluntary requisition procedure. A requisition can be used when a juvenile is already in custody and refuses to return, and it can also request that authorities in the holding state locate, pick up, and detain a juvenile whose whereabouts are known pending the return proceedings. This means that a competent 18 year old could be forcefully taken into custody and returned to their parents in another state without their consent—simply because they lived in a state that doesn’t consider them an adult yet.
The holding state does not simply have to accept a parent’s demand. The interstate process includes judicial review. The ICJ Bench Book’s discussion of non-voluntary returns explains that the holding state’s court determines whether the demanding state has established its legal entitlement to have the juvenile returned. A separate nationwide criminal warrant is not necessarily required for the court to act on a properly issued ICJ requisition.
The Compact also contains safeguards where abuse or neglect is suspected. The ICJ legal overview for runaway returns and child welfare explains that when authorities in the holding state have reason to believe that returning the young person may expose them to abuse or neglect, those allegations must be communicated to the appropriate home-state authorities and addressed through applicable child-protection procedures.
Accordingly, there is a legally plausible chain of events in which an Alabama 18 year old leaves home without parental permission, travels to another state, refuses to return, becomes the subject of Alabama CINS proceedings, and is then subject to an ICJ requisition seeking involuntary return. The Compact provides the legal machinery necessary for that to happen.
How Likely Is an Involuntary Interstate Return for an 18 year old?
Luckily, available evidence suggests that an involuntary interstate return of an ordinary, independent 18 year old would be difficult and even unprecedented.
There are several procedural steps between a parent objecting to an 18 year old moving out and another state physically returning that person to Alabama. A parent may contact police or juvenile authorities, but a formal Alabama CINS petition first has to survive the screening requirements in § 12-15-120. The intake officer must determine that jurisdiction exists and that filing the case is in the best interests of both the young person and the public. If the matter proceeds, a court must become involved before a pickup order is issued as part of the juvenile case. If the young person has already left Alabama, Alabama authorities must then decide whether the case warrants use of the interstate system.
The ICJ’s own statistics show how rarely Alabama uses non-voluntary interstate returns in general. According to the Interstate Commission for Juveniles’ FY2024 Annual Report, Alabama was the home or demanding state in only 18 total ICJ returns during that fiscal year. Of those, 17 were voluntary and only one was non-voluntary. Ten of the 18 total returns involved runaways.
That single non-voluntary return does not establish that an 18 year old runaway was forcibly brought back to Alabama. The FY2024 ICJ data do not identify the age of the person or whether that one case involved a runaway, an accused delinquent, an absconder, or another category covered by the Compact. The important point is that Alabama completed only one non-voluntary ICJ return of any type during the entire fiscal year.
Because of the fact that the ages of the runaways subject to ICJ returns are unknown, it is reasonable to assume it is very unlikely they are 18 years old. These ICJ proceedings could apply to any minor, meaning that those 18 ICJ returns could encompass any minor from 0 – 18 years old.
An 18 year old Alabama runaway would therefore represent a very narrow subset of an already small caseload. Most runaways handled through juvenile systems are younger than 18. An Alabama 18 year old would also have to refuse voluntary return and be involved in a case serious enough that Alabama authorities chose to pursue the more cumbersome requisition process rather than allow the matter to end or be resolved through less coercive means.
The scarcity of publicly reported examples also suggests that this is not a common practice. Despite Alabama’s age of majority having been 19 for decades and the ICJ having operated for many years, there appears to be no readily identifiable published case or news report documenting an ordinary Alabama 18 year old who voluntarily established themselves in another state, refused to return, and was then forcibly transported back to Alabama through an ICJ requisition solely because their parents opposed the move.
That does not prove that such a return has never occurred. Alabama juvenile proceedings receive substantial confidentiality protection. Under Alabama Code § 12-15-129, CINS proceedings are generally not conducted as fully open public proceedings, and identifying information about juveniles and families is subject to restrictions. ICJ caseload statistics are also published largely in aggregate rather than through individually identifiable case summaries.
Nevertheless, the absence of documented examples is meaningful when evaluating how often this authority is exercised. If states regularly used the ICJ to apprehend otherwise independent 18 year olds and return them to their parents because of higher ages of majority, one would expect at least some identifiable court challenges, appellate opinions, news reports, legislative controversies, or civil rights disputes involving those cases. The lack of such examples, combined with Alabama’s extremely small number of non-voluntary ICJ returns, suggests that this use of the interstate juvenile system has not occurred yet.
Could Someone Helping an 18 year old Leave Home Be Charged With a Crime?
In an ordinary case involving a competent 18 year old who voluntarily chooses to leave, another individual who assists them in “running away” may be charged with certain crimes. The first thought I had when it came to this, is the person involved being charged with kidnapping or interference with custody, but those seem to be unlikely under Alabama’s current laws.
Under Alabama’s kidnapping framework, reflected in the Alabama Pattern Jury Instructions for § 13A-6-43, kidnapping requires an unlawful abduction, and restraint is ordinarily without consent only when accomplished through force, intimidation, or deception. Parental non-consent automatically substitutes for the victim’s consent only when the victim is under 16 or incompetent.Therefore, if an 18 year old knowingly and voluntarily gets into another adult’s vehicle and asks to be driven to another state, the parents’ objection alone would ordinarily not transform that voluntary transportation into kidnapping.
Alabama also has a specific interference-with-custody offense, but Alabama Code § 13A-6-45 expressly applies to taking or enticing a child under 18 from lawful custody. Consequently, someone who merely helps a consenting person who has already turned 18 leave the parental home does not fall within that particular provision simply because Alabama’s general age of majority is 19.
However, while kidnapping and interference with custody do not fit, Alabama’s “contributing to delinquency” law could apply. Alabama Code § 12-15-111 makes it a Class A misdemeanor to willfully aid, encourage, or cause a child to become or remain in need of supervision. Because Alabama permits an under-19 individual to qualify as a child in a CINS proceeding, prosecutors could theoretically examine that provision where another person deliberately facilitates runaway conduct by an Alabama 18 year old. So theoretically, an 18 year old in another state could be charged with “Contributing to the Delinquency, Dependency, or Need of Supervision of Children” for allowing an 18 year old in Alabama to run away to them.
This type of situation illustrates the ridiculousness of inconsistent state-law frameworks. Hypothetically, if there is someone in Alabama who is 18 years old and 9 months, and gets help from someone who is 18 years old and 2 months, living in a state like Texas with a normal age of majority, then technically the younger 18 year old could be charged with contributing to the older 18 year old’s delinquency, despite them both being two 18 year olds—legal adults in most other places—trying to live together. If this doesn’t tell you that these laws need reformed, then I don’t know what does.
Nebraska Shows Why a Higher Age of Majority Does Not Always Mean Continued Runaway Jurisdiction
Nebraska provides an important comparison. Nebraska’s general age of majority is 19, and Nebraska Revised Statute § 43-2101 declares people under 19 to be minors while also granting 18 year olds substantial independent legal powers, including contractual capacity.
Historically, Nebraska’s higher age of majority was sometimes treated as allowing parental control to continue after 18. In an official 2018 Nebraska Legislature Judiciary Committee transcript, Senator Matt Hansen referred to testimony from an 18 year old who had obtained a job and an apartment but was still treated as a runaway and “was taken back to her home.” That example shows that law enforcement has, at least historically, enforced parental authority over an otherwise relatively independent 18 year old in a high-age-of-majority state.
However, Nebraska’s modern juvenile-law framework is not identical to Alabama’s. In In re Guardianship of Tomas J. (Neb. 2025), the Nebraska Supreme Court emphasized that although Nebraska’s general age of majority remains 19, an 18 year old is no longer a “juvenile” under Nebraska’s Juvenile Code and is no longer a “child” under certain other statutory frameworks. This illustrates why a state’s general age of majority does not automatically determine whether an 18 year old can still be processed as a runaway.
Another recent Nebraska incident points in the same direction. In May 2025, 18 year old Madison Gompert of Albion, Nebraska, left home shortly before her high school graduation with her 20-year-old boyfriend, Kegan Hackerott, prompting her family to report her missing and publicly seek information about her whereabouts. Because Nebraska’s general age of majority is 19, Gompert was still technically a minor under state law despite already being 18. Her father had also filed a petition seeking a domestic-abuse protection order against Hackerott, alleging concerns about his relationship with Madison and his plans to help her leave home.
Gompert herself contacted the Norfolk Police Division to ask about her legal options. Officers subsequently met with her in person and determined that she was safe, was not injured, was not being coerced or held against her will, and had voluntarily chosen to leave. Once police established those facts, Gompert was removed from the missing-person listing, was not forced to return to her parents, and the police dropped the case. The case therefore ended very differently from what might be expected simply by looking at Nebraska’s age of majority of 19: despite still technically being a minor, an 18 year old who had voluntarily left home was ultimately allowed to remain away once law enforcement determined that she was safe and acting of her own free will.
This situation is actually very revealing, and I suspect that the 18 year old in question was dealing with a similar situation as the girl I mentioned at the beginning of the article. According to reports, her father attempted to file a domestic violence protection order against his daughter’s boyfriend, citing concerns of him helping her leave home. However, Madison herself confirmed to police that she was safe, unharmed and in a better situation out of her own free will. To me, this is a clear sign that the father only wanted to allege domestic violence in order to control his daughter and hinder her ability to be with her boyfriend. Her father was most likely an oppressive parent, who wanted to enforce his control of his daughter in any way possible, resorting to getting police involved because an 18 year old left his clutches and he couldn’t stand that he could no longer treat his daughter as a possession.
However, if the same situation had occurred in Alabama, the outcome could have been less straightforward. Nebraska authorities ultimately treated Gompert’s voluntary decision to leave as controlling once they confirmed that she was safe and not being coerced, but Alabama law leaves more room for continued juvenile-court involvement at age 18. In Alabama, a parent could potentially continue pressing the matter through the CINS process even after police confirmed that the 18 year old left voluntarily, meaning the case would not necessarily end with a simple welfare check. A juvenile intake officer or court would still have discretion over whether formal intervention was appropriate, so a safe and independent 18 year old might still avoid being forcibly returned. However, Alabama’s statutory framework gives parents and juvenile authorities a stronger legal basis to keep pursuing the case than Nebraska’s current juvenile laws appear to provide. If the 18 year old had crossed state lines, Alabama would also have a clearer path to attempt an interstate return through the Interstate Compact for Juveniles, although the facts of the case would hopefully make a forced return extremely unlikely.
What about in Mississippi?
Mississippi is materially different from Alabama. Although Mississippi’s age of majority is 21 years old, higher than both Alabama and Nebraska, an ordinary 18-year-old does not appear to remain subject to Mississippi’s youth-court runaway jurisdiction simply because they have not turned 21.
Mississippi Code § 1-3-27 provides that, unless another law says otherwise, a “minor” includes a person under 21. But Mississippi has carved out many adult rights beginning at 18. Most importantly for someone trying to move out, Mississippi Code § 93-19-13 expressly gives an 18-year-old the legal capacity to enter binding contracts involving personal and real property, to lease a residence in their own name, and to obtain utilities for that residence. That statute specifically refers to a person who has reached 18 “but not having reached the age of majority,” which confirms that Mississippi deliberately allows someone who is still technically below its general majority age to establish their own residence.
The runaway issue is even clearer. Mississippi’s Youth Court Act defines a “child” or “youth” as a person who has not reached their eighteenth birthday. Its definition of a “child in need of supervision” includes a child who “runs away from home without good cause,” but because the person must first satisfy the Act’s definition of a child, that runaway provision applies only to someone under 18. Once a person turns 18, they no longer fit the ordinary statutory definition required for a Mississippi CINS/runaway case.
Conclusion – All Questions Answered
In Nebraska and Mississippi, state laws make it pretty clear that even though 18 year olds have not reached the age of majority for the state, they can no longer be subject to runaway proceedings—however, Alabama is harsher. An Alabama 18 year old occupies an unusual legal position. Turning 18 gives the person substantial independence, including legally enforceable contractual capacity under Alabama Code § 26-1-1, but it does not necessarily eliminate Alabama juvenile-court jurisdiction over runaway behavior.
Leaving Alabama for a state where adulthood ordinarily begins at 18 also does not automatically eliminate Alabama’s ability to pursue a return. The Interstate Compact for Juveniles looks to the home state’s juvenile jurisdictional rules when determining whether someone qualifies as an interstate runaway, and ICJ Rule 6-103 provides a formal mechanism for involuntary return when a qualifying runaway refuses to return voluntarily.
However, the practical likelihood of a safe, competent, otherwise independent 18 year old being forcibly returned across state lines appears low. The case must pass through several levels of governmental decision-making, most ICJ returns are voluntary, Alabama uses non-voluntary returns very rarely, and there appears to be no readily identifiable public example of Alabama using the Compact to forcibly return an ordinary 18 year old interstate runaway solely because their parents opposed the move.
The FY2024 ICJ statistics are especially significant: Alabama completed only one non-voluntary ICJ return of any kind during that entire fiscal year. Even that case cannot be identified from the public data as involving an 18 year old runaway.
The most accurate characterization is therefore that Alabama law creates a real legal possibility of continued parental and juvenile-court authority through age 18, including the theoretical possibility of an interstate forced return, but the full coercive process appears to be used very rarely—or even never—against otherwise independent 18 year olds with no prior juvenile-court involvement, no safety concerns, and no evidence that they left involuntarily.
So can you run away from home at 18 years old without parental permission in a state with a high age of majority? In Nebraska and Mississippi, yes, you can. In Alabama, you most likely can as well, especially if you go to another state with a higher age of majority. Remaining in Alabama increases the possibility that CINS proceedings can be used against you, however, the possibility that the police and ICJ will go through with a forceful removal to return you to your parents from another state is incredibly low, to the point that there has never been a verified case of this occurring.
Although this is a very unlikely occurrence, the fact that this is even a theoretical possibility is absurd. The fact that certain states can arbitrarily raise the age of majority to give parents longer control over individuals who—in 90% of states would be considered grown adults—is ridiculous. The fact that parents can legally use corporal punishment on an 18 year old is even more disturbing, and the fact that corporal punishment is even allowed against minors at all should be questioned as well. Even more ridiculously, the fact that an 18 year old could be charged with “contributing to the delinquency” of another 18 year old, who could theoretically even be older than them, because they let them move away from their controlling parents, is a testament to how ridiculous this high age of majority is. Situations like these should never be a possibility, and Alabama should put a real priority on reforming their age of majority to make it align with the rest of the country.
The Need for Runaway Rights for Youth
This situation brings me to another point as well: the need for common sense Runaway Rights. While 18 year olds can exercise their right to leave home independently in most states, minors under 18 are still subject to harmful runaway laws. Most states treat running away as a status offense, allowing police to forcefully take minors that have been reported as runaways into police custody, and then return them to their parents—even if they are residing in a safe environment at the time of being discovered. This is extremely harmful to any minor running away to escape an abusive home, especially considering the fact that child protective services often fail to intervene when minors report abuse. I’ve discussed ideal runaway rights in detail before, but I think it is important to recognize the rights that ALL minors should have when it comes to leaving home without parental consent.
An ideal runaway rights framework would make it so law enforcement have no authority to take a runaway minor into custody and/or return them to their parents if these certain conditions are met:
- The child is currently residing in a home/environment where all of their basic needs are met
- This home/environment has no underlying safety issues that would threaten the health of the child
- The residents of this home/environment consent to the child residing with them
- The child wants to stay at their current location, instead of being returned to their parents, out of their own free will.
Along with this, an adult simply allowing a runaway minor to reside in their home without notifying the parents or reporting them as a runaway should never be punishable by law. The only reason this conduct should be illegal is if the adult is actively harming the safety of the child or keeping them against their will. This runaway rights framework would ensure that the safety of the young person is protected, while also ensuring that their freedom of movement, and right to choose their living situation is respected by law enforcement.
The National Youth Rights Association
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