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What is Maturity and how is it determined?

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1:40 am
November 10, 2004


Bongermann

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You can take a law away and leave the fucking regulation. This is checks and balances. To take away the law that disallows me to own a gun can be removed, while keaping a law that says that if I can pass the standard testing and go through a course, I can have a gun. Take away the age restriction and leave the regulation. If you can not pass the driving test you can not drive, regardless of age. If a twelve year old is irresponsible enough to drink themselves to death, let them, if a 21+ year old is, let them. We dont need them.

And dont waste your time calling me an ass or saying that I am heartless and cold, I know this already.

We brag about our rights, our liberties, our freedoms. We fight for other nations peoples rights, we pride ourselves with these things we hold sacred, things set in stone by the Constitution of this United States! But! How many of us actually stop and think about what few liberties and freedoms we have left?

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1:43 am
November 10, 2004


Bongermann

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Oh, and this is a debate. Debates get ugly, deal with it.

We brag about our rights, our liberties, our freedoms. We fight for other nations peoples rights, we pride ourselves with these things we hold sacred, things set in stone by the Constitution of this United States! But! How many of us actually stop and think about what few liberties and freedoms we have left?

———————-



Kevin James Biersteker,

Libertarian Chemist and

Keeper of the 420.

———————-

Billy[COLOR=Magenta], [COLOR=YellowGreen]I'm [COLOR=Magenta]BIG [COLOR=Cyan]and [COLOR=Yellow]I want[COLOR=Indigo] YOU.





~
That is like saying that a man has the right to rape a girl who dresses like a hooker because she forfeited her right to her virginity.~

– Suff said something… smart. Wow.:cute:





I'm gonna Wrath you up good, you little Shinzo! :lol:

1:44 am
November 10, 2004


Kev

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XavierAKadafi wrote: Stop feeding on madd propaganda.

evil sucking on the devils teet evil

Anyway,

Revere wrote:
On Driving:
OK I admit you are correct about driving. The right to drive should be based solely on passing a test, not on age.

On alcohol consumption:
You are correct that a 12 year old would probably know their limits. Though people of any age may abuse alcohol and OD on it. The fact is that alcohol has a greater detrimental effect on the developing mind, than on the adult mind. However with the drinking age, it would be enough for them to just lower it to 18.

True but about the test why don't we test kids to see if they can handle alcohol and know thier limits. This is akin to supporting group punishment.

If one person screws up, the whole gym class runs.
If one male driver speeds, all males lose thier licences.
If one kid chugs 24 beers a day and dies, all the responsible kids suffer.

It's not supposed to be like that in a constitutional republic.

Xavior: be nice to the junior member lol

And yes Revere,
It's O.K. not to be black and white on every issue, only in most situations its either right or wrong, not in the middle.

I seem to be a black and white kinda guy myself.

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1:54 am
November 10, 2004


XavierAKadafi

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NEVAR KEV! I shall smite you all with my divine sword. smile

"Mosh now or die

And if I get sniped tonight

You'll know why..

Cuz I told you to fight!"



-Marshall Mathers; Mosh (Encore)



Katrina says:

lots of fun, there were even a couple of dogs there!

Katrina says:

it's not a party without a dog ;)

"I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door / I've had you so many times but somehow I want more" says:

… Kat, I don't want to think about what you do with dogs…

2:01 am
November 10, 2004


Kev

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I hope you are not mocking my bad spelling you chickengizzard-shitface!

I am right. You are wrong. And let me explain to you, in considerable detail, how I am right and you are wrong. And if you disagree, I will go into more detail, or just rewind and say the same thing over again. – [FONT=Verdana]Galactic Ruler Xenu [/FONT]

Innocence is just ignorance in a frilly pink dress. - Agnapostate

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3:54 am
November 10, 2004


XavierAKadafi

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nah, I just like the word NEVAR! smile

"Mosh now or die

And if I get sniped tonight

You'll know why..

Cuz I told you to fight!"



-Marshall Mathers; Mosh (Encore)



Katrina says:

lots of fun, there were even a couple of dogs there!

Katrina says:

it's not a party without a dog ;)

"I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door / I've had you so many times but somehow I want more" says:

… Kat, I don't want to think about what you do with dogs…

3:58 am
November 10, 2004


Balore

Canarsie, NY

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Continuation of my last posting

You seem to have that attittude of "Your either with us or against us". You have to realize that there are nuances in every political issue.

I happen to agree with you more than I disagree. I beleive that every person on earth yearns to be free. I believe that society should be equitable, free, just, democratic, and inclusive towards everyone including youth. I think that me and XavierAkadafi both agree on that. What we don't agree on is how to attain that ideal society. You believe in the eradication of all laws immediately. I believe that we need a gradual change in the law.

You should not be so intolerant of other people's viewpoints. You are being intolerant when you say that my views are nonsense and your views are the only correct ones. That is like the conservatives who say that liberals, are a bunch of anti-American lunatics. I hate partisanship. I am being open minded towards your views, so you should do the same.

My reply to the new postings:

Originally Posted by XavierAKadafi
Stop feeding on madd propaganda
sucking on the devils teet

My response: Oh that really cracked me up. Yeah that is what really need amidst a heated argument, some humor. I did not get my info from MADD. Why would I? They are a partisan special interest group that is dedicated to blaming young adults for all the DWI related deaths.

Maturity
You don't seem to believe that maturity actually exists, but I can easily prove to you that it does. Most children below age 7 cannot think logically. If you have young children at home try this experiment with a child six years old or younger and then again with a child 8 years or higher.
Say the following to each child:

All men are created equal

James is man

Is James created equal?

(Try to use a name that is unfamiliar to them.)

Prediction:

You will find that the younger child says "How should I know, I don't know the man

The older child will say "Yes, James is created equal."

If the experiment goes according to planned, then maturity does exist. If not then maybe I'm wrong.

Gun Ownership
I don't have any actual proof on whether or not a 14 year old with a gun is more dangerous than 18 year old with a gun. I just don't trust a 14 year old with a gun just as much as I don't trust WMD's in the hands of Kim Jong Ill of North Korea.

If a twelve year old is irresponsible enough to drink themselves to death, let them, if a 21+ year old is, let them. We don't need them.

Bongerman, you obviously believe in Darwin's theory of natural selection-survival of the fittest. In the animal kingdom that definitely is true, but not within the human race. You see, humans have respect for the lives of all humans. We believe that no matter how mentally disturbed you have the right to live. That is why the misfits of society cannot be weeded out. What happens is the society allows the misfits of society to survive to pass on their genetic defects to future generations. If all 12 year olds were allowed to drink then the few that would drink themselves to death would be eliminated leaving only those twelve year olds who are mature enough to survive. Of course in a modern society that is just plain wrong. I actually favor eugenics- the practice of weeding out the inferior people in society. It would be very beneficial to society to weed out inferiors. I am not talking about actually killing them, just simply allowing them to become victims of their own device rather than protecting them.

Tell me more about your alcohol testing idea Kev.

-Oren Bala

4:32 am
November 10, 2004


Bongermann

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Mine would be to tell the person that there is a given amount of alcohol in a drink, then give them as much as they want untill they have reached either the limit where they would die, pass out, or they say no more. No actual alcohol would be in the drink of course.

We brag about our rights, our liberties, our freedoms. We fight for other nations peoples rights, we pride ourselves with these things we hold sacred, things set in stone by the Constitution of this United States! But! How many of us actually stop and think about what few liberties and freedoms we have left?

———————-



Kevin James Biersteker,

Libertarian Chemist and

Keeper of the 420.

———————-

Billy[COLOR=Magenta], [COLOR=YellowGreen]I'm [COLOR=Magenta]BIG [COLOR=Cyan]and [COLOR=Yellow]I want[COLOR=Indigo] YOU.





~
That is like saying that a man has the right to rape a girl who dresses like a hooker because she forfeited her right to her virginity.~

– Suff said something… smart. Wow.:cute:





I'm gonna Wrath you up good, you little Shinzo! :lol:

4:42 am
November 10, 2004


XavierAKadafi

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Show me where your biased studies are then reeves.

Also, how does that prove maturity and logic? etc. The brain does develop but that doesn't = maturity. All that proves is that through time you increase in intelligence.

I will not believe in any idea of "maturity". You can't convince me.

I'm also not you're all with us or you're against us, Reeves. I just have a tendency to argue with you if you disagree with me. If you don't like the way I word it and it bothers you then tough shit, but my attitude is why don't you agree with this.. Well here's what I think..

"Mosh now or die

And if I get sniped tonight

You'll know why..

Cuz I told you to fight!"



-Marshall Mathers; Mosh (Encore)



Katrina says:

lots of fun, there were even a couple of dogs there!

Katrina says:

it's not a party without a dog ;)

"I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door / I've had you so many times but somehow I want more" says:

… Kat, I don't want to think about what you do with dogs…

7:22 pm
November 10, 2004


Balore

Canarsie, NY

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Bongermann that still does not prove anything
On Maturity
All right lets not call it maturity. Let's instead call it cognitive development, because you agree that intelligence increases with age. There is a difference in how people think according to how old they are.
This article that I wrote will demonstrate that there are major differences in how people of different ages think. I want to compare way American society works with the way school society works.
You have the American society. Within this society you have what I call the school society. These two societies work very differently. The American society is democratic. The school society is a popular dictatorship.
In American society you have the right to not conform. You have the freedom to live your life however you want without fear of persecution. This society is tolerant of all people. Everyone who is a citizen is included in it, and immigrants have the potential to become a part of it. It is inclusive. The leader of the society is elected by the people for the people.
Not so in school society. In schools if you don't conform, you are persecuted for it. This is a very exclusive society. It is a society that breeds xenophobia. Fear and hatred of strangers. It also encourages social conformity to the extreme. People who conform to what is popular are included (cool), whereas those who do not conform are excluded (fags). The excluded are subjugated, victimized, and intimidated. They have no rights. They are a second class. The included enjoy all the benefits of school, while the excluded are dehumanized. School society believes in Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest. In school that means that the strongest rise to power and the weakest fall. In school intolerance of people who are different is acceptable, and encouraged. Those who are weak and vulnerable are exploited by others to further their own agenda.
In school society you can say anything you want without having any sensitivity to the the person are saying it to. In American society, people are sensitive to what other people say. If someone is fat, you don't make fun of them. In school you can make fun of a fat person as much as you want. It is perfectly acceptable. Basically children may not care about whether a comment is appropriate. They may say what they want as long as they dislike you. They are more impulsive and spontaneous
In school society leadership is determined by popularity. The more your liked the more power you have. Leaders are not elected, they simply rise to power. When I talk about leadership, I mean a person or people who organize the class. As with any leader they can use their power for good or bad.
Now don't get me wrong here.
The way these two societies work is not definite. There is good and bad in each. I am just saying that overall the American society is better, because it is more tolerant than the school society. In American society you can be who ever you want. In school society you have to conform to what's popular. The difference is obviously attributed to age.
Actually we don't need the governent to impose discriminatory laws on us.
Unfortunately, in school society we discriminate amongst ourselves. I think this is a problem that we ought to address. We have to treat eachother fairly, if we want others to do the same for us

-Oren Bala

9:13 pm
November 10, 2004


Fabuluke

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Hmm…this discussion on maturity was rather interesting. I don't believe in intelligence or competency testing in participate in our democra…oops, constitutional republic. It's discrimination again, this time against those who are so unfortunate as to be challenged mentally. It is not their fault, and no fair government should do that. Discrimination in any shape or form is terrible. None of it should be condoned, in my opinion.

Everyone deserves the chance to participate in this country's political process, regardless of age or mental capacity. Chances are, the people who are not smart enough to vote or do not understand the voting process probably will not vote or even care unless the issues are presented in such a way that they will react viscerally and vote with their feelings rather than with well-reasoned opinions of the candidates.

I don't think maturity should be a factor. Most people know their limitations, and I think that if the options are open, those who feel they can handle freedom will go for it, and those who feel it's just not the right time yet will wait. I'm sure that some will make mistakes, but that is what life is about. We learn by trial and error, not by complete abstinence. For if we completely abstain from something, how will we know if the thing we abstain from is as bad as the controlling group tells us it is?

-Jess.

I was dead, but I'm alive again, I think.

11:03 pm
November 10, 2004


enteroneness

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Revere wrote:
2. In order to identify criminal behavior, people need to be judged according to a defined set of social norms. In other words, if their were no limits imposed on society, then what you would have is complete anarchy.

I am not saying that we should have no limits or guidelines on BEHAVIOR. But i think it is important to distinguish behavior from maturity. If one is spontaineous, and full of life, someone might call them mature. When however, they may have better moral judgement than a majority of individuals. When we try to determine what maturity is and push it on youth, then we are not dictating their behavior, but dictationg who they are. We are limiting their personality.

11:08 pm
November 10, 2004


enteroneness

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1:50 am
November 11, 2004


XavierAKadafi

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Hey now Jess.. Discrimination against balding 23 year olds with no sex lives is okay! tongue

j/p

"Mosh now or die

And if I get sniped tonight

You'll know why..

Cuz I told you to fight!"



-Marshall Mathers; Mosh (Encore)



Katrina says:

lots of fun, there were even a couple of dogs there!

Katrina says:

it's not a party without a dog ;)

"I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door / I've had you so many times but somehow I want more" says:

… Kat, I don't want to think about what you do with dogs…

1:52 am
November 11, 2004


Kev

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Revere wrote: Tell me more about your alcohol testing idea Kev.

I didn't really have a specific idea in mind when I said that. I was trying to convey the message that, "If any age that can pass a driving should be allowed to drive, then why shouldn't any age that can responsibly drink do so?."

The problem that we run into here, and the problem which you are asking me to give you my answer to is, "How do we gage thier ability to drink in a responsible way and who should creat and administer this test. Based on my principals and my ideas of how the government should be run there shouldn't be a test and as long as they arent infringing on anyone elses rights they should be allowed to do whatevcer they want.

What most people would say to my idea of allowing anyone who wants to drink do so would be, "But what if they go out and kill someone?" True.
If its about killing people why is anyone allowed to drink at all?

It's not jhust the young drivers that get in wrecks and kill people. It's forty year old fathers of three, it's collage students, it's peoples moms lol(that wasn't really funny), it's peoples grandparents, and yes, it's also teenagers and kids. However in a constitutional rebublic, like the USA alledgedly is, the rights of the majority are never abridged by the will of the majority and even if this country contained 10,000,000,000 prohibitionists and 3 people who arent, those three people should still be allowed to pursue happiness in any way they see fit including drinkiong as long as it doesn't infring on the rights of the others.

However, since my view is very unlikely to happen I will attempt to describe a possible test:

Untill someone has the chance to partake in drinking free of fears of being caught or punished you cannot tell how they would react in that particular situation. When we were visiting Germany my mom told me the second I ordered a beer that I couldn't have it. Why, because she believes all the MADD propaganda and all the shit psycologists put out about how irresponsible shildren are and how they don't really know what they want and they need to have restrictions put on tehm to keep them from harming themselves. In this situation my reletives pretty much ignored my mom and even paid for my beer (Germans are like that) which was a good thing because my mom saw (unfourtunetly only in this situation) that those psycologists didn't know me, they knew the average american socialite kid with a weak moral concience and an underdeveloped ability to make informed responsible decisions. I am a very responsible drinker and I can tell you why. When something is not allowed or only occasionally allowed you want it more than if it is constantly available to you because it is not a big thing anymore and it no longer matters. For instance chocolate. If I regulate my kids (don't really have any) chocholate intake and on day leave them alone with a dumptruck load of it they aren't going to be able to control thier intake. However if I leave it up to them in the beginning they will get bored with it and it will no longer be as special or out of the ordinary. Parents can't shelter thier kids from responsibility all thier lives, and expect them to be responsible when they move out, parents have to intoduce them to responsibility and allow them to make mistakes (to a reasonable degree: nothing life threatening) and learn responsibility from those mistakes in the form of real world experience. That's why kids who grew up in the ghetto with no parents, getting shot at on the streetcorners, sleeping in ditches and under bridges, are more streetsmart than kids who grew up in a "loving","traditional" middle class american home in the subberbs.

CNP

I am right. You are wrong. And let me explain to you, in considerable detail, how I am right and you are wrong. And if you disagree, I will go into more detail, or just rewind and say the same thing over again. – [FONT=Verdana]Galactic Ruler Xenu [/FONT]

Innocence is just ignorance in a frilly pink dress. - Agnapostate

Those words make me want to stab people…With bullets. – JohnOSevens

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2:06 am
November 11, 2004


Kev

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Any way, what i am trying to say is that the opnly testthat would work for this purpose is real life. Learn from your mistakes. Real life, in allot of cases, is beter than taking the advice of someonld guy with gray hair who keeps rtambling on about how it was back in the old days and about how when he was a kid there was no such thing as beer and they had to walk barefoot to school through ten foot snowdrifts uphill bothways ion subsero tempertures starknaked for 20 miles. Bullshit. This isn't the old days and thats just a bunch of shiot anyway. Back in your day yoiu learned just the same way everone learnes, and you too disagreed wiith the way things were. But now that your a preegeezer lol you no lo0nger care if the next generation of kids end up having to put up with the exact same shit that you did when yopu were growing up because there is nothing in it for you. Let them drink let them get a hangover let them puke out thier iunnards all over the kitchen floor let them clan it lwith thier toung let them suffer, and then ask them "So Billy, are you going to drink responsibly from now on?"

"Hell Yes"

I think this is far better than telling your kid, "well in this book I read by Dr. Jackass chickengizzard shitface agiest cowfucker it said that kids drinkin at young ages become alchoholics, and I don't want you drinking because it's bad for you."

What reason dores the kid have for listening to you?

Zero None Zilch Nichts

YOU CANNOT EXPECT KIDS TO MATURE IF THEY ARE NOT GIVEN RESPONSIBLILITY AND THE CAPABILITY TO MAKE MISTAKES AND LEARN FROM THEM

That was one long post.

I am right. You are wrong. And let me explain to you, in considerable detail, how I am right and you are wrong. And if you disagree, I will go into more detail, or just rewind and say the same thing over again. – [FONT=Verdana]Galactic Ruler Xenu [/FONT]

Innocence is just ignorance in a frilly pink dress. - Agnapostate

Those words make me want to stab people…With bullets. – JohnOSevens

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2:36 am
November 11, 2004


Ayliana

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XavierAKadafi wrote: My little sister cracked her forehead open and my grandpa had to drive to one hospital where he argued with them for a half an hour because they refused to treat her until my parents (3 hours away) came. He drove an hour and a half away to get her to a hospital that would stitch her up.

Holy fucking shit! That is why I'm thankful to live in Ct. They have laws against that. Any child with a head injury is rushed straight to the emergency room regardless of who brought them in.

That is fucked up.

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7:35 am
November 11, 2004


XavierAKadafi

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Yeah, it was…

"Mosh now or die

And if I get sniped tonight

You'll know why..

Cuz I told you to fight!"



-Marshall Mathers; Mosh (Encore)



Katrina says:

lots of fun, there were even a couple of dogs there!

Katrina says:

it's not a party without a dog ;)

"I drove for miles and miles and wound up at your door / I've had you so many times but somehow I want more" says:

… Kat, I don't want to think about what you do with dogs…

11:46 am
November 11, 2004


Fabuluke

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Kev wrote:
What reason dores the kid have for listening to you?

Zero None Zilch Nichts

YOU CANNOT EXPECT KIDS TO MATURE IF THEY ARE NOT GIVEN RESPONSIBLILITY AND THE CAPABILITY TO MAKE MISTAKES AND LEARN FROM THEM

Good point. REALLY good point. grin

I was dead, but I'm alive again, I think.

11:48 am
November 11, 2004


Fabuluke

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XavierAKadafi wrote: Hey now Jess.. Discrimination against balding 23 year olds with no sex lives is okay! tongue

Hahahaha! grin Good one.

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